The unknown
Do you know what I think we, as people, are most afraid of? Not knowing. Not knowing whether what you are working for or trying to accomplish, both in your […]
Embracing imperfection
Like many professionals, particularly the lawyer type, I have a tendency to be “Type A.” With this comes the need to be a perfectionist. This can lead to additional stress […]
Cutting down on decision fatigue
In January, like most everyone, I resolved to improve my diet to lose the weight I gained last year while writing my book. More on the book later. In order […]
You are only in competition with yourself
“If you can’t fly, run; if you can’t run, walk; if you can’t walk, crawl; but by all means keep moving.” —Rev. Martin Luther King, Jr.’s closing remarks from his […]
How to spark joy
The recent snowstorm gave me the opportunity to watch the Netflix series “Tidying Up,” which highlights how we can benefit from eliminating things from our life that do not “spark […]
It’s not all about you
If you’ve been reading my blog posts with any regularity, you may have caught on that I’ve recently become a big fan of podcasts. This week I heard an […]
Finding your purpose
I hope you all had an enjoyable holiday season and have eased back into the “rat race.” Over the break, as part of my down time, I watched part of […]
Reflections of a first-year associate, 12 months in
It’s hard to believe that we are now in 2019, and I’ve now been an attorney for a little over a year! Happy New Year to all. I wanted to […]
Looking for resolutions? Try board service
During the holiday season, people focus on what they can do for one another, but the week after New Year’s Day is when people think about how to improve themselves. […]
The entertaining side of litigation
Given the craziness of the past 12 months, I want to end the year on a lighter note. The entertaining side of litigation! At a recent deposition opposing counsel said […]
I don’t work weekends
The first half of the month of December my mother fell and broke her knee. My mom provides child care for my kids, so all of a sudden I had […]
The benefits of mediation
I am a big believer that no family law case should go to trial, that a resolution can and should be reached in mediation. Not only because this is a […]












